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Lessons From Untangled

June 8, 2015 By Mary Hill 7 Comments

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**Required Disclaimers: I received a copy of the book, Entangled written by Carey Scott, from Revell in exchange for my honest  book review. This post also include affiliate links to Amazon. If you click on the link and purchase the book, I will receive a small percentage of the sale. I use the little bit of money I earn to pay for my blogging expenses. 🙂

 

Do you battle with issues of inferiority? If you say, “No,” then I challenge you. I don’t think there is a human being alive that doesn’t have an inferiority complex.

I sometimes am so envious of 20 some-things, young women who have it all together. Look at what the world has to offer them now: the most advanced global communication tools ever. I mean where was blogging, Twitter, YouTube, and Facebook when I was 20?

It isn’t fair. I am disabled, washed up, and my life seems almost over, can I get a witness? Carey Scott discussion in her book, Untangled: Let God Loosen the Knots of Insecurity in Your Life,
on the biblical Elizabeth really hit home with me. If you remember, Elizabeth became the mother of John the Baptist very late in life when no one expected her to bare a child.

Looking back at my life is depressing. I came of age when phones were tethered to the wall, when VCRs were considered high tech. We didn’t even own one because they were so expensive.

I had to make do with an old, clunky typewriter. I typed crappy, still do. Then, I finally got a word processor typewriter and could see three lines at a time. I did not have all the fine dangle tools, these young whipper-snappers have now.

If only I was in my twenties now! I could really be someone. I could write my dream, best selling novel.  Instead, I can barely type on my computer and have to use a microphone to dictate my posts because of arthritis. I feel like the witch in the Disney animated film, Tangled. Green envy, jealous. Does anyone relate?

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I am old, disabled, and inferior. All kidding aside, this feeling is no laughing matter. It is real for me, and I hope I am not alone here, right?

I battle daily with this feeling that the best of my life is long gone. Here is the clincher, however. I know in God’s eyes, I am not washed up or “an old gray mare.” Just like Carey writes:

“Age means nothing to God. Whether we’re one or one hundred, if we are breathing air on Planet Earth it’s because we still have value and purpose for the kingdom of Jesus. We may feel worthless to God because there is no spring in our step or twinkle in our eye, but he never stops seeing our immeasurable value.” (Page 44)

“It is important to know we are not alone in our I’m not good enough feelings and that God isn’t repulsed by our insecurities …. while we see our flaws as deal-breakers, God never has …. Instead, he puts a purpose on each of our lives regardless of how broken we are inside. I love knowing that. Only God can look past our messes for our messages.”

I have learned so much reading this book and I am only on Chapter 2, “First Tangle.”

I usually do not recommend a book or write the review until I finish it. This book though is so heartfelt and moving, I know I can safely recommend it. Carey’s message has already touched me to the core. It is worth investing in!

(Note: this was written earlier. I have now read through more than half the book. I still love it and highly recommend it. I think reading it may even inspire more posts this week. We will see though. 🙂

If you want to learn more about Carey Scott and her book, Untangled: Let God Loosen the Knots of Insecurity in Your Life, be sure to visit her social media sites:

  •  Her website:  http://www.CareyScottTalks.com
  • Book website: http://untangledwomen.com/
  • Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/careyscotttalks
  • Twitter:  https://twitter.com/CareyScottTalks

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  1. Cookie says

    June 9, 2015 at 9:19 pm

    Thank you for this vulnerable and transparent post! I totally agree, that somewhere everyone battles a little insecurity somewhere….if not a lot. This book sounds like such a blessing, I will be adding this to my Amazon wish list for sure! Thank you! 🙂
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  2. Michelle says

    June 9, 2015 at 2:49 pm

    Hello fellow #Untangled reviewer! I am so grateful to have been chosen to review this AMAZING book!
    I love Carey’s candidness and her transparency. She is definitely on my list of future authors to watch for!

    I’m visiting from Holly Barrett’s Testimony Tuesday.

    Blessings dear friend! Here’s to #livinguntangled
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  3. ~Karrilee~ says

    June 9, 2015 at 11:17 am

    I keep hearing about this book and how incredible it is! It’s definitely going on the wish list! I think you are right – whatever the root or however it may manifest, we ALL battle insecurity from time to time, but Christ set us free and our security comes from Him alone – and He made us on purpose, for a purpose… it sounds like this book digs in to that truth!
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    • Mary Hill says

      June 9, 2015 at 11:50 am

      Thanks. I love how you reaffirm that we are here for a purpose. Jesus has a plan for each of us. His dreams for us are huge and wonderful.
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  4. Crystal Walton says

    June 9, 2015 at 7:47 am

    You’re definitely not alone. And insecurities certainly aren’t a respecter of age. I just finished reading The Fault In Our Stars, which really grapples with the desire to lead a meaningful, memorable life vs walking through the meaninglessness of suffering. That desire to have meaning and purpose is so profound in all of us. It’s such a sweet reminder to rest in knowing God is able to use every part of our lives for a purpose, even when we can’t see how.
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  5. Carey Scott says

    June 9, 2015 at 12:51 am

    Thank you for taking the time to read and review my book. I love your thoughts, and appreciate your honesty in blog and review. Glad to know God met you in the pages of Untangled!

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  6. Susan Mead says

    June 8, 2015 at 12:43 pm

    Mary, oh I must read her work! Thank you. I would be “an old grey mare” … If not for Clive. But only he (salon owner) is supposed to know that, right?!

    Again, thank you for the intro. Susan
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